Over the course of many years, I meet truly wonderful people. It is a wonderful pleasure to be able to give my clients readings. We both enjoy the wonderful energy that comes through from spirit.
However, on the very rare occasion some clients might have a very difficult, or even a few very difficult issues going on in their lives. This is most distressing for them. As they are not sure how to deal with the issues. Unfortunately we are not issued with an instruction book when we incarnate on this earth, so we have to wing it so to speak.
When the said clients come to a psychic or clairvoyant, they bring with them all this energy that is very distressing to them. This distressing energy does affect the psychic or clairvoyant. It is very draining for us. Some of us more so than others. It is important that people understand this. Any emotional distress will also affect the quality of the reading too. And what the reader wishes is, to give you the very best quality of reading that they can, in the space of time allotted for each reading.
We are all responsible for our own lives, and the situations that we find ourselves in. It is not for others to sort out someone else's problems. We have all come into this world to learn lessons. We have agreed in spirit to the contract that we have for the life that we are given. How can one learn and grow spiritually with some one else doing the lesson for us? It is impossible to do so.
Getting back to the energy situation though, a distressed person unknowingly dumps their negativity on the psychic or clairvoyant. We are not councillors or psychologists. That is never our function, we are only here to read your cards that you yourself have drawn.
We are not responsible for what happens in a clients life. We simply read what is in the cards, a reader must in no way, what so ever get involved in the life of the client, as that is unprofessional. We are not to be used as a 24 hour advice service or anything else. That is selfish and inconsiderate to treat anyone in such a manner.
We psychics and clairvoyants have our own lives too. We have families and duties just the same as everyone else. We have our personal problems too.
When we have problems, we have to resolve the problems by ourselves. There is no one there to help us in our time of need. When we are overloaded with issues we can go into shut-down and are unable to conduct readings for a minimum of 24 hours.
We can be shut down by spirit. Due to being over loaded by stress that other people have dumped on us. Some of us readers are not able to tell a client that they, are over stepping the boundaries. So this is where spirit steps in and shuts the reader down for a bit. In order to rest and re-balance their bodies energies. If not the reader could become very ill.
We must not have our vulnerability compromised by others We must have regular breaks and rest. We owe this to our families also. Most of us are parents after all, and have our children to care for.
So we must all set boundaries and wish for them to be respected.
Peace and love
