We got Tolstoy's ashes yesterday morning, it was quite an emotional, but low key event. My husband and I went to the emergency vet clinic to pick them up early. When walking in to the clinic I became aware of his presence, and his lovely bushy tail. We picked up his ashes, thanked the receptionist and left. As soon as I got into the car clutching his little Urn, I suddenly saw Tolly. He was right at eye level and walking to and fro in front of my face and showing me his bushy tail. I could hear him purring. He Was just letting me know that he loves me and the family and that he was officially home with the family.