Trust is a gift, not just any gift it is a special gift, given by one individual to another. It is not a thing to give away lightly. Once you give it to someone you can't take it back again. If that other person doesn't value that trust then that is a betrayal of trust. Too many people abuse this gift every day without thinking of the cause and effect of the deed. Everything we do on this Earth has cause and effect attached to it. This is the law of the Universe. It's just the way it is. We must think carefully before we take any action that we might later wish to retract. It makes no difference if it is a positive (good) action or a negative (bad) action. Some people believe that we choose or responses, however some situations only allow scope for limited response.
Both may be quite valid, knowing wisely which option is the trick.
Bear in mind that the other person may deliberately limit you scope for a response to suit their agenda. Therefor you are playing into their hands just as they planned all along.
Copyright by Alex Fulford 2010
